15 Things Wedding Guests Don't Really Care About







A wedding day is one of the special days in anyone’s life. The wedding week is a busy one with lots of things to do. From invitations to the presence of guests, from decorations to the served food, everything matters. When you start planning for that day there are so many things to take in consideration while preparing for it.
Everyone put their full efforts to make the day a memorable one for the couple who are just going to begin a new life. While the decors are done, the wedding planners do considerate the things or the colors liked by the bride or groom for making them special but they also concentrate on the looks of the venue and other things which guests will like. Well, there are some of the things guests rarely notice them, some of the things are unnoticed in front of other special ceremonies.
1. COLOR OF FLOWERS
This is so true, the color of the flowers rarely matters on the wedding day. The attendees will not look over the whole decors but they will notice the venue you chose for the ceremony. They will hardly give any attention to the flowers or the types of flower in the bouquet you are holding.
2. FANCY CENTERPIECE
Dining table looks good when it has food, and the centerpiece enhances its look, by that it looks more beautiful, but the part is its absence will not be realized if it is not there. It is rarely observed by the guests, what they care about is being able to talk to the people present at the table and food that is served to them.
3. YOUR FOOTWEAR
Seriously, no one will see what you are wearing as stilettoes if you are wearing Jimmy Choo, Brian Atwood or any other brand it will hardly matter to the guests present over their not even your spouse will be aware of that. Everyone will see you, your smile on your face.
4. YOUR PHOTOSHOOT
Photoshoot does matters in every wedding, as it helps to keep the memories saved and capture the moments which will be cheered in the future. Everyone gets eager to bless the couple and have a picture with them but it hardly matters if they forget to do so, family members do take care of that but nobody really gets interested to know with whom you are left with. So, it is just the other one which wedding guests do not think of.
5. THE GUESTBOOK
Though it is a creative idea to store the messages and smudgy scribbles to read them further but in this world of grown-up technology, it will not affect anyone. Neither you nor your guests. Snaps can make it more than those scrawled name on that book. It can also help to save you from extra expenses.
6. WEDDING PARTY INTRODUCTION
Well, that does not really matter to the guests present they just listen to it from one ear and forget about what you spoke just now. Of course, they do not concentrate what the mic. holder is saying they just have their own talks.
7. THE PROGRAM SCHEDULE
On the busy ceremonies, if you skip one or two, no one notices about it. No one gives attention on the timings of the ceremonies, the guests also have their own time to come up to show their faces on the venue, even their time is not planned and they do not bother about the program schedule.
8. THE OPEN SEATING ARRANGEMENTS
The seating arrangements do matter and enhance the look of the whole venue, and that is one of the major things the wedding planners do take care of, but guests love it the way it is arranged. They do not bother much about the arrangements made for seating and yes obviously the color and the type of tablecloth rarely matters to them.
9. TOSSING THE BOUQUET
It hardly matters if you toss the bouquet or not it is totally up to you. Although this tradition has become outmoded, you can skip that and it does not really matter to your guests as well.
10. THE DRESS
We all know that it is not what you wear, it is about how you wear it. Whatever you are wearing try to be confident for it. The dress can be complex on your wedding day, try to be comfortable with what you wear, you will look adorable undoubtedly. And guests will love your face in that dress. Put up your personality and chin high that will matter the most. It does not really matter which designer you are wearing.
11. YOUR THANK YOU SPEECH
That is none of the business of the guests I guess, they rarely think about the couple’s voice or what they are saying but it is important for their family members. So it is up to you if you want to thank your family personally or on the platform.
12. IT IS A WEDDING NOT A BAR
If you think that it will matter then do not think so, no need to provide tons of whiskies and thousand brands of beer. Though it is one of the main thing required for the guest’s attention (but not actually important). You can prefer beer and wine with some cocktails and that is more than enough.
13. YOUR GRAND EXIT
If you keep it simple then also it will work, at the end of the wedding, guests will not pay their much attention towards your exit or how you are abiding goodbye.
14. CHOREOGRAPHY OF YOUR DANCE
Well, that is for sure, no matter how much time it took to prepare that three minutes of dance but so sad no one notices your steps and moves with your spouse. They will just see two pretty faces in love.
15. HYGIENE OF THE FOOD
To be very honest, all the guests who are invited do not really care about any of the ceremony or the other rituals going on, they just wait eagerly for food to have it. They do not even bother about the hygiene of that food.