45 Questions to Ask To See If You Are Compatible Couple
The
heart to heart connection is required to hold the bond of any relationship.
Love is not aware of religion, complexion or distance. The two souls who are
ready to change themselves for each other and accept each other’s quirks and
flaws are meant to be together for a lifetime. A relationship can be boring if
you both have same traits. The likes and dislikes of your partner should matter
you when you both of you have the same taste in music, food and other
activities you will feel bored and may begin to find for excitement in other
things.
You
should know everything related to your partner. So, you should ask them if you
think like you should know more then you actually know them till now. Being
introvert is not an option here, you “both” are in the relationship and share
the same bond so, it is your right to ask and discuss each other’s perception
views, dig out the feelings and inner thoughts. Which can be possibly exciting,
you will come to know about many of your partner’s secrets. These questions will
not only create a transparency but will also make your bond much stronger you
will conclude if your relationship is worthy or not. The direct discussion will
clear out many of your dilemmas related to each other and you can go for a
compatibility test, who understand each other more will be more exciting.
1. What do you consider
as the most important thing in a relationship to be successful?
2. Would you endanger
your happiness for our relationship?
3. What is cheating for
you in a relationship?
4. What is that one
thing you would like to change in me?
5. Do you still have
any soft corner for any of your exes?
6. Would you be able to
say sorry even if it is not your fault?
7. Do you believe in
sharing the expenses?
8. How much financial
matters must be shared between us?
9. When was the last
time you were angry with me?
10. If I ever cheated
on you, would you be able to forgive me?
11. What would you
choose, a romantic and cute gift or something you can make use?
12. Is there any song
you want to dedicate me or us?
13. If you have been
physically intimate in the past with anyone?
14. Would you like to
change any of the decision I take?
15. If you do not have
a good day, would you like to be alone or would like to spend some time with
someone?
16. What is your
favorite memory of us or any special moment of us?
17. What do you think
is the best thing for a relationship to be a “happy relationship”?
18. What is your
favorite dish or dessert?
19. What would you
prefer something homemade or McDonald’s?
20. What makes you feel
most loved?
21. Is it important to
celebrate Valentine’s day?
22. Would you lie to me
just to make me happy?
23. What attracts you
the most in a man/woman?
24. What is more
important in a relationship intimacy or spending time together?
25. If I spend more
time at work or with my friend then would you feel insecure?
26. How much time
should I call you in a day?
27. What is important
for you among these two, beauty or nature?
28. How many times have
I disappointed you?
29. Would you like my
choices over yours?
30. What are those
annoying things that other couples do?
31. Is it important to
show our love for each other socially?
32. Would you ask me
for any of the passwords of any social media site?
33. Do you think
sharing everything is important in a relationship?
34. What is your
favorite holiday destination?
35. Are you a morning
person?
36. Which is your
favorite book/novel/autobiography?
37. Are you a daydreamer
or a night thinker?
38. Would you mind if I
have male/female best friends?
39. Do you remember my
birthdate?
40. What is your taste
in music classical or rock?
41. List the things you
like about me?
42. What is my favorite
movie?
43. What are your biggest
fears in a relationship?
44. What is the meaning
of intimacy for you?
45. List the things you
cannot live without?
As
you can see there are some questions which are too important to be asked to
your partner whereas some of them are really light but they too mean a lot. We
all know that “words are powerful and so as the knowledge”. Talking to the
person you love can give you never-ending happiness. It is always good to know
each other well which will result in making your bond much stronger and you will
be able to trust each other more. These questions are kind of fun, to involve
each other, to understand your relation much clearly. It will broaden your
knowledge for your partner and spend your further life happily, sipping the
coffee of love.