33 Marriage Spice Up Ideas & Tips
Marriage is a beautiful
relation and what it needs are compatibility and trust. There are problems in
every marriage and after a point of time, there is some sort of spice that goes
missing and it becomes like a forced relationship. So, there is need of some
spicing up and fun. So, are you also one of those couples who are facing the
same problem, want to know the solutions? Here are some tips-
1. COMMUNICATE
Communication is the key to
every relationship. If you feel there is some problem that is causing some
problem in your relationship and causing a lot of fights. It’s better to talk
and communicate with your partner about that. It will make your bond strong
again and remove all the misunderstandings.
2. LONG DRIVES
A nice weather, your partner
and a nice long drive or walk……what’s better than this? Long drives are never a
bad idea to spend a good time with your loved ones. This will help you to spend
a romantic time and can also make you both to talk and take a break from your
busy lives.
3. KISS AND HUGS
Kissing and hugging your
partner is never wrong. It makes them feel that you still love them and find
them attractive. Make the kiss longer and more romantic and hugs tighter. Say a
‘hi’ and a ‘bye’ or greetings like good mornings with kisses and hugs, it will
add a pinch of love in your relation. And yes, don’t forget the forehead
kisses, as they are the Best.
4. GIVE SPACE
Invading a lot in your
partner’s life can irritate them and can make them feel that you don’t trust
them. Make them feel that other than this relationship, they also have an
individual identity. Give a little bit of space and see what difference that
brings in your relation.
5. APPRECIATE THEM
Your partner loves when you
praise them about the things they do. Whether it’s a new change that they
brought in the interior of the house, or did something good in their business,
appreciate them, they will feel important and confident about themselves.
6. GO ON DATES
Plan a romantic date with
your loved ones and spend a great time with them. It can be a movie date or a
dinner date. Focus on your partner and make them feel that they are important
to them, give them all the attention and it will surely make your bond more
romantic.
7. THANK THEM
Always be thankful and
grateful for their presence and their support in your life and make them feel
that you mean a lot to them and not only for the big surprise that they arrange
for you, thank them for the daily things that they do for you and make your
life better and easy.
8. TRUST THEM
Trust is the most important
thing of every relation and always believe your partner. If you can’t trust
your partner and if they are true to you or not, your relation will surely come
to an end and without trust, no relationship can work out.
9. BE FAITHFUL
Always be truthful to your partner and the
relation that you both share. If you cheat and don’t be faithful to your other
half’ then there is no need to be in that relation. Talk to them and b very
-very honest with your partner and make your bond strong.
10. GO ON VACATION
Taking a break from daily
life and schedule is never a bad idea and plan. Plan a relaxing holiday with
your partner and try and bring the spark back in your bond. It does not need to
be a long vacation; weekend plans can always work in helping your relation.
11. JOIN A CLASS TOGETHER
Think of something that you
both enjoy doing or love to do, and join a class together. This will help you
spend some time together and also remove all the differences that are coming in
your marriage.
12. HELP YOUR PARTNER GROW
As a partner, you should
never be someone who comes in between the growth and success of your other
half. Support them in what they do and they should never compromise their
successful growth because of you.
13. SEX
Every marriage has sex in it
but some of them exist only because of sex. Sex is a lot better when there is
love involved in it. As it is also said as love-making, make it passionate and
intimate. Longer time doesn’t really matter, what matters is how your partner
feels and how you feel.
14. LISTEN TO THEM
Everyone In life has some or
the other problem that is troubling them. Even if you can’t really help them
with the problem, listen to them and give them confidence that they will
overcome it. It will make them feel much better and sometimes only by listening
also, you can help them.
15. NOTICE THEM
Everyone loves being noticed
by someone whom they love and hear some praise about it. If as a partner you
notice when they are wearing a new shirt or you had a haircut, it will surely
make your bond stronger. If you gift them the thing they mentioned in a random
talk, they will feel important.
16. RESPECT EACH OTHER
FAMILIES
For anyone, their family is
the most important thing and if someone they love, disrespects their family, is
surely something that one will not tolerate. So, always respect and love the
other family member.
17. RANDOM SURPRISES
Who doesn’t like Surprises
and that too by your loved ones? Plan some small romantic surprise for your partner
and shower some love upon them. It will light up your romantic life and surely
spice up your wedding.
18. BE EQUAL
The reason for a healthy
relationship is when you feel that both of you are on the same page of the book
of your relationship. When you feel dominant in your relationship it makes the
other person under confident. When you feel that both of you are equal then
your relation will be healthy and it will always be spiced up.
19. CARE OF LITTLE THINGS
Everyone likes it when they have
someone who cares about every little thing of them and if you do that the
relationship becomes strong. If you see and listen to every little thing what
they do and what they say, and make them feel special and nice about them.
20. MOVIE NIGHTS
What a better weekend than a
movie and your partner by your side? Plan a relaxing and fun movie night with
your partner and spend some romantic time with them. Choose a romantic film and
enjoy with your loved one. And yes, don’t forget to take popcorn and a cold
drink with you.
21. ACCEPT THE WAY THEY ARE
In a relationship, it is very
important to accept the way your partner is. When you decide to change your
partner in love, then it is killing their individualism. If you accept their
madness, their habits and their way of living then it will help you to adopt
some changes in your life. Accept who they are.
22. SHOW THEM SOME ATTENTION
Be very attentive toward
them. Your attention is what they need and want. You are one of the most
important people in his life so your attention is what they accept. Give them
attention and make them feel that they are important.
23. DON’T WAIT FOR ‘THE RIGHT
TIME’
There is nothing that is
called ‘the right time’. If you want to say something to your partner, just say
it. In the wait of the perfect timing, can make the things go wrong and if you
want to complain about anything, do it because it can create a big
misunderstanding too.
24. BE EXPRESSIVE
Don’t ever hesitate in
showing your love towards your partner. Expressing love is never wrong and will
always make your bond more and more special and loving only. Expressing love
doesn’t always mean large gifts and Surprise, it is what you do from heart and
love.
25. ACCEPTANCE
It is very – very important
to accept the way your partner is. If you change their way of being themselves,
then they will feel a bit insecure. It is important to keep the individualism
that they have. If you accept the way they are, it will help to bring a change
in your life too.
26. PRIORITIZE YOUR BOND
It is important to always
prioritize your relationship. Never take your relationship for granted. You
need to understand what they mean to you and if there is a problem, try and
solve it and never neglect them.
27. BE FUNNY
Everyone wants their partner
to make them laugh. Be funny and bring a smile on their smile. Keeping them
happy and being happy is what they will love. Always keep your joke in a limit,
be sure that your joke doesn’t hurt them.
28. SLEEP TOGETHER
It is important to sleep
together, not just beside each other. Keep your phone away and spend time. Talk
about your day and about things you want to clear the air and it will make your
relationship stronger. It is important to take a fresh start before starting a
fresh new day. Cuddle and sleep.
29. APOLOGIZE
Every couple fight and faces
some misunderstanding. Fighting is okay but what is important is apologizing.
Don’t let your ego come in between your bond and say sorry without any
hesitation. Your ego is not important that saving your relation.
30. DISCOVER THINGS ABOUT
EACH OTHER
It is good to always know
some things about each other. Get to know about each other and the things they
like and dislike and the way they react to some situations. Be very conscious
about your partner and keep that newness alive.
31. BE A TEAM
In every situation, be like
time and support each other. Support is not only financial but also emotionally
too. It is all about compatibility and teaming up. Equal efforts are what makes
the marriage work and keeps the spark in it.
32. BE POSITIVE
There is a time when you feel
that the relationship is not going in the right direction. And if at that time
you lose all your hope and give up on your relationship then nothing can help
to save your bond. So, you should never think that your relationship has no
future. Be positive about it and work positively towards it.
33. DON’T MAKE YOUR EFFORTS
COUNT
It’s not right to always
claim what you have done in your relation. If you do so, then it seems that you
are making these efforts just to be on the top of the scoreboard. It might also
feel your partner low about themselves and will surely affect your
relationship.
So, these are a few things
that you can do to spice up your wedding and make it work. Sometimes there are
situations when you don’t know what is happening in your marriage and you feel
that it is the end of your relationship but just by keeping some tips in mind
and making some efforts can surely bring a change in your married life.